Porn and Sex Addiciton - The Energy Suckers

A common similarity with porn and sex addicts whom I have met is the following: Most of them are generally very energetic, creative, and talented individuals. I have met many like myself who are technically savvy and have either a vast technology background and/or amazing entrepreneurial skills. Many would call me ADD becuase I like to work on various projects at the same time as a business owner. Why is this relevant? It is becuase before becomming sober in my addictions I used up a HUGE amount of energy in fulfilling my addictive desires.

I have met quite a few people who have found sobriety in sexual and porn addiciton. Many positive changes hold true across the board but one interesting fact in particular is the following: Recovered porn/sex addicts have... read more >

Porn/Sex Addiction - Suggestions to Church Leaders

As I went through recovery from porn addiction I realized something about my addictive cycle. I allowed religion to become part of the addictive cycle. It is VITAL that church leaders understand and can identify this behavior. For you addicts out there, maybe there is no religious piece to the cycle, but think about what I am going to explain and see if something besides... read more >

Porn/Sex Addiction - Why not Stop?

Having gone through a porn addiction of 15 years I would frequently ask myself, "Why not just stop?" There was a part of me that really wanted this beast out of my life but another part kept the burning cravings alive. It was like there was a piece of me that did not want to let it go. It had become a cyclical part of my life. When time got tough or stressful, I had become accustomed to using porn as ... read more >