Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Porn Addiction - FEAR
How does a porn or sex addict get better? What is the driving force? I have heard various people talk about fear. I have a friend who's wife told him that if he ever looked at porn again, she would divorce him. This may well bring adequate fear...or did it? Well, he is still married and has slipped on occasion. What about the church leader who uses fear with someone who confesses? Is this curative to the addict? For years I often thought this fear of man and even of God might "cure" me from my addiction. I was wrong. Fear only brought temporary success followed by relapse.
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Thursday, May 14, 2009
Pornography is Ambushing the Family
Monday, March 23, 2009
Greatest Challenge: Sexual Addiction
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Really Getting Better From Porn/Sex Addiction
Many who frequently post talk about their addiciton and say they want help but many don't do anything to get help after posting. One man who posts on a forum admitted he had an addiction a year ago. He started posting in order to find "an accountability partner and others" to help him be accountable to his addiciton. He regularly ... continue reading >
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Understanding Leads to Healing
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Porn/Sex Addiction - Attacks Young and Old
The number of people seeking counseling for pornography and sexual addictions is increasing. What about young people? In a forum I participate in, there are various men between 15-19 years old that talk about their addictions but cannot enroll in programs. Some due to money, access to a credit card, or they simply still rely and live on their parents and keep addiciton a secret with them.
This is where the problem generally grows and becomes an all out addiction....when young. Almost every man and woman I have known with sexual addictions of any kind can trace the beginnings back to ... read more >
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Porn and Sex Addiciton - The Energy Suckers
A common similarity with porn and sex addicts whom I have met is the following: Most of them are generally very energetic, creative, and talented individuals. I have met many like myself who are technically savvy and have either a vast technology background and/or amazing entrepreneurial skills. Many would call me ADD becuase I like to work on various projects at the same time as a business owner. Why is this relevant? It is becuase before becomming sober in my addictions I used up a HUGE amount of energy in fulfilling my addictive desires.
I have met quite a few people who have found sobriety in sexual and porn addiciton. Many positive changes hold true across the board but one interesting fact in particular is the following: Recovered porn/sex addicts have... read more >
Saturday, November 15, 2008
Porn/Sex Addiction - Suggestions to Church Leaders
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Porn/Sex Addiction - Why not Stop?
Having gone through a porn addiction of 15 years I would frequently ask myself, "Why not just stop?" There was a part of me that really wanted this beast out of my life but another part kept the burning cravings alive. It was like there was a piece of me that did not want to let it go. It had become a cyclical part of my life. When time got tough or stressful, I had become accustomed to using porn as ... read more >